The ecstasy and elation “being liked” by people brings to you is unparalleled. It leaves you in another world or may be in seventh heaven when people confess that they like you or you are the most likeable person around them.
Everyone is likable in their own possible ways by birth but there is always an aura and a charisma which one can build around by working on certain traits and characteristics. They might know about these traits but do not use them to benefit from it. These traits can make you appear more alluring, captivating and significant. Here is what you need to master if you wish people to get attracted to you without much of an effort.
1. BE FRIENDLY
One of the most basic things which kill your likability is being fake, aloof and indifferent. But be mindful that people are observing and taking notes. Once they get the message, even if it is unintentional you will be labeled as rude and cold for life.
It is important that treat people passionately and have friendly demeanor. Do not curb your natural instincts of being yourself and shine through opening up. A simple smile would not harm much and make eye contact while you are talking rather than being engrossed in your screens. It has been noticed that people who are genuine pay attention while others are speaking, nod for reassurance and lean forward in order to pay attention.
2. BE PRESENTABLE
Being presentable stands you out of the crowd in such indefinite ways that its magic can do wonders. Imagine going to a dinner party dressed all shabby, messy hair and tattered dusty shoes; will you be liked and adored? Hell no! People will rather despise your presence.
Whereas on the other hand if you enter the same party, dressed according to the event, adorning the right kind of adequate accessories like zenith el primero watch, shiny shoes, hair immaculately combed and exuding aromatic fragrance, you will definitely make heads turn. It is a natural human nature that they get attracted to people who are presentable and carry themselves well.
3. ASK QUESTIONS AND LISTEN
If you are a good listener, then there is no doubt that you must be having tons of admirers. People like to be listened to, who doesn’t? This way they feel important and get a sense of reassurance. Do not cut them in between as it will give an impression that they are not interesting. Pose as if they are the most important person to you and you are enjoying what they
are talking about. As counter questions, which shows you are paying attention and want to know what happened next.
4. GIVE COMPLIMENTS
Ah! Compliments, just one of the most important things we tend to ignore the most. Aren’t compliments boosting, aren’t they encouraging, don’t they leave you feel stimulated about yourself. Similarly, as much as you like receiving compliments you tend to admire the person who is praising and applauding something about you. So, in order to be esteemed and fancied by others, be generous with your compliments.
5. SCREENS OFF
It is certainly basic manners that you pay attention to what others are telling and it is considered to be highly impolite to be on your screens while in a gathering where you are supposed to socialize and interact with people. if this kind of attitude remains patent, others will automatically deviate away from you and may not like to hand around you the next time.